Pursuit of Love..

Posted by ansh.... | Posted on 5:11 AM

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Falling in love to falling apart

In past few days had some unpleasant, unexpected experiences which compelled me to give a thought on how does this “LOVE” thing works. I would like to write about different situations that I came across. I think all of us would have gone through this phase of life but do we know how to deal with it?? People don’t misunderstand me ,I am no good to give you solutions but just want  to pen down the dilemma , the confusion , the pain , the trouble it put us into. So let’s travel the journey together of Falling in love to falling apart.

Lovelorn, there are people who fall in love with someone he/she might not ever get, they want to put their heart open and let the other person know how much they love them, they want to tell the other person that there is not even a single second I don’t think of you, I relate each and every damn thing that happens to me to you, I can talk to you for hours together without ever needing a break, I find all the excuses to just meet you and spend some time with you, I long for your love. And we actually plan our whole life with that person and it seems that everything is picture perfect. But the twist in the tale is that it is a one sided love, to live with the fact that your love story never started with the one you love is hell. Why is this injustice people, if you love someone like crazy aren’t that the other person should also love you the same way. But Love is not about selfishness it is all about selflessness hard to settle with this thought but this is how it goes.

If you love someone, put their name in a circle, instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever.

Heartbroken, this also happens in love, that after years of strong relationship suddenly one wants to move out of the relationship, you actually feel so cheated on when someone calls off the relationship for no good reasons or when your partner ditch you in any other way. You feel like crying, you feel like shouting at that person, you feel completely shattered, scorned, hurt and humiliated .You decide to screw the person’s life who made your life miserable but trust me except that you might fight with the person, If the love is true you will never go to the extent of screwing your partner’s life even when you were cheated on that is what love is. It’s the worst feeling in the world to love and hate someone at the same time, Love actually makes you helpless at times and it is the stark truth, even after all the mess one does you are ready to forgive the person and at times also accept the person; you are ready to forget all the pains that were given to you. You will be the same loving person. Rightly said Grievances do not help in Love. Again hard to settle with this thought but this is how it goes.

Just admit that you never loved me so the pain you caused me makes sense. And you know what’s sad? I’ll spend the rest of my life trying to forget you. And you’ll spend the rest of yours, never thinking about me again

We are the perfect couples; we are just not in perfect situation. Many times it does happen that you have to take hard decisions in your life. You might have to decide to separate from the person you love the most. It’s the worst way life can treat you, it seems like a punishment. You can’t really move past it without facing it and feeling the pain infact a part of you dies when you lose someone you love. It makes me feel sick that why because of some filthy reasons the people in love are put into this situation. Why does this happen that at times you are given options when you don’t want to choose, when you cannot even think of being without each other. Why is it so hard to understand that nothing matters when LOVE is around? How it is expected from you to forget the moments spent in love…Still at times the circumstances decide you destiny again hard to settle with this thought but this is how it goes.

When you said we would be together forever I thought that meant until we die but I guess forever isn’t as long as it used to be.

That reminds me a beautiful line: My beloved says that Love has multiple shades like a rainbow; let’s love each other in every shade of love. Just hold on to the feeling and never let it go. Love really makes you mad but if does not it is not love right?? To the special person in my life, I am not sure what has been destined for us but just want to let you know that you are everything I want in my life and I just don’t know how to make it through this life without you. And I will do everything to make things work rest you know. I wish we can always be together. I wish….



Live through feeling and you will live through love. For feeling is the language of the soul, and feeling is a truth.
-- Matt Zotti







                                       All the best to all people in love and wish us luck too…
                                       God Bless and Stay in love!!!
                                       Akansha

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